I have been a teacher for ten years and sent away three students. Sometimes when talking to colleagues about this problem, they always simply sum up that the students who study well are indifferent, unconscientious, and the students who do not study well, although the study is not good, but it is human.
I just yeah promised to echo the past, so that this topic will end soon.
I have thought about the underlying reasons myself. First, most students who learn well go farther than students who do not study well. When you go to school, you may feel that a teacher has helped you very well, but as you meet more people and see a more exciting world, the help you once seemed insignificant. When I think of the teacher, I still have respect and gratitude, but I don’t have the strong desire to visit. Moreover, the places where I went to school and work later were in big cities and even abroad. I really had a lot of tasks to go home, and it was not so high priority to visit teachers.
The second reason is deeper. Most of the students who study well know more clearly when and what they should do, which is one of the reasons why they study well. I will listen to the lesson during class, do it by myself instead of copying when doing homework, get it on time when I go out for exercises, and have fun when I go out to play. Therefore, their purpose is clear, and the reason for their good or bad performance is more attributed to their efforts or relaxation. Those good students who have stable grades all the way and have never gone off course know that they are going to college, and even better they know which university they are going to study which major, so coming to school is to study, and if you don’t understand, you will ask, teacher Just the NPC on this mission line.
The third reason is that in fact, when you become a parent, you will know that your child is excellent. First, it depends on the luck of the child; If a child has grown up in the love and attention of parents since he was a child, and is therefore very good in all aspects, then he will feel very clearly who will pay more to him. At school, the teachers’ attention and concern for him is nothing.
However, a child with a normal family background and the same level of importance as his parents, if he meets a good teacher who is normal, say something encouraging to him, correct him in time when he makes mistakes, or pull him at a critical time. Has extraordinary significance. So they will never forget, think that the teacher made him, have a kindness to him, and will often visit the teacher after graduation.
Finally, to say something off topic, I have been in the education industry for ten years, and I have increasingly realized the importance of family education to a child. Good students are not taught by teachers, and poor students are not taught by teachers. Every child is the epitome of a family. Parents’ ideas, ideas, attitudes, economic level…all reflect on the child.
Parents are the children’s first teachers and teachers for life. The teacher in the school is an NPC that every child will encounter in life. The impact will be there, but it is still too small compared with the parents.